Why is it good men always seem to get the woman after she has been ran through the shredder by the bad guys?  Why do women often meet the great guy when she has become disenchanted with relationships and her heart has died from constants break ups?

                                             Why do good guys finish last?

     1. Women do not find good guys attractive since good guys often appear easy to women.

    2. Some women are accustom to being treated badly therefore when they meet a man who treats her exactly how she deserves to be treated. She sees him as a weak individual and takes disadvantage of his feelings. His affection is seen as a weakness and not as a virtue.

    3. Bad boys are far more intriguing. People often want what they cant have.

     4. The forbidden fruit always seem more appealing than the one within our reach.

      5. When good guy comes around, the female has been broken and duped too many times by other men that she thinks he is just another faux trying to satisfy his selfish needs

      6. Some women enjoy the adrenaline rush, the highs and lows of being with a bad boy. They like the excitement and being kept on their Ps and Qs.

      7.People tend to value something more if they have to work hard for it. The good guy makes relationships look easy, women like the bad guys because they make them work for their companionship. They value bad boys because they validate themselves by making women work for them.

    Now you see bad boys the trick to the game is that if you show a woman you care, she will withhold her feelings and share it elsewhere. Hide your feelings and women will chase you to the end of the earth. Additionally, there are many women who do not understand what good means. You cannot force a person to have a relationship with you who does not possess your shared values and ethics. You only posses an internal locus of control. You can control how you feel and what you want. Sometimes the best thing to do is to find a mate that has your shared values.