Have you always seeking approval from women? Are you looking to “buy” the love of women, with fancy dinners and gifts? Do you like women who you say you’re like a brother to them? (This is the kiss of death BTW) If you ask women to participate, do they reply “Let’s be friends.”? Do you think it is bad to be a man?

If you find yourself nodding along to these questions, I’m sorry to tell you that you are 100% certified grade A Nice Guy with all the bells and whistles, but do not despair, there is hope.

Many theories have been tossed about why women are not enough for boys.

“They are not a challenge.” “They are too boring.” “There is no excitement.” “They are too easy to obtain.” “They push overs.”

These are for me the reasons why women do not surface for nice guys. We need more.

What is the reason why the root kind can not get girls?

In my opinion, there are really two fundamental reasons.

1. They do not adhere to their masculinity. 2. They put women on a pedestal.

1. They do not adhere to their masculinity.

The book I list a number of reasons why men of this generation have become friendly. One reason that really struck me is the radical feminism. Glover said that radical feminism has led to a social climate that was very hostile to men.

“All men are pigs.” Men are the cause of all problems in the world. “Men are rapists.” “All men are not good for animals who treat women like pieces of meat “.

So guys have concluded that women and men, while trying to hide their masculinity. After all, men are pigs anyway? And women do not want that right? So do not be a man, and you will not be a pig and women of this right? Twisted logic indeed.

The result?

Women across America still very frustrated by the lack of real men today. Radical feminism has tasted the fruits of his work and he is very bitter.

Do not mess with nature. If your husband, man. If your wife, woman. Not hide. Embrace.

Get the notion of “a bad to a man” in your head right this second.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with men.

Just as there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a woman, there is absolutely nothing wrong with men.

Embrace your masculinity. Do not be ashamed.

2. They put women on a pedestal.

The book also states that due to a shift from an agrarian society to an industrial society in America, and several wars between the boys were left without a father at home.

In addition, the education system is mainly composed of women.

With the lack of influence of the men at home and at school, boys have been conditioned to look for women for the definition and approval. This habit into adulthood as the boys get the approval of women.

Nice Guys see the women they want and they are automatically placed on a pedestal, wondering what they can do to get their approval. Maybe they write a love letter 10 pages, or make a mix tape, or the flood of expensive gifts, all in a vain attempt to win approval and love.
They do all this in the beginning of a relationship, where the quality of “coming on too strong, too impatient and not enough of a challenge.” By doing these things right from the beginning, men silence implies that they are not good enough and must resort to other tactics to consider themselves worthy of the woman.

Nice Guys see women and think, “Man, I gotta do something for this girl. They are up there and I’m here so I have to compensate somehow.”

Accordingly, nice guys spend all their time dreaming of how they can get the girl. They spend all their free time around the young girl goes shopping with her, listening to all his complaints, sympathizes with the difficulties they have with her boyfriend, all in a vain attempt to approval in hope to bring them to one day race will be in his arms.

Women are human beings. They eat, breathe, sleep, and go to the bathroom on a regular basis, just like the rest of us. Women are not goddesses. They have the same uncertainty (if not more) than you and me There’s nothing about them. They are human.