“It is only too true that a lot of artists are mentally ill- it’s a life which, to put it mildly, makes one an outsider. I’m all right when I completely immerse myself in work, but I’ll always remain half crazy.” ~ Vincent van Gogh.

One of the clichés of modern society is that when we see a stranger smiling for too long, most of us think he/she is crazy. This says something about our society. We associate happiness with mental illness, we equate politicians with leadership and famous people as role models, so I guess we only get what we deserve.

The thing is, many of us also think there’s something not quite right about people we associate with regularly, but we tend to give them the benefit of the doubt. I’m sure there’s at least one person in your neighborhood or social circle with a slightly louder than normal laugh or weird reactions. That person might be you. Because you or the neighbor who does not socialize is a little less bizarre than the foul-smelling homeless person who talks to himself all day, you are considered simply eccentric.

We are quick to label and we are programmed in society to see things a certain way. Whatever it is, you find yourself thinking “there’s something just not quite right about that person”. While it’s often easy to identify the behavior of crazies and eccentrics, it’s worth considering that plenty of our own habits probably seem pretty strange to others.

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Though obsessive compulsive cleanliness or a grueling fitness regime is considered normal by society, the only thing that really separates them from a crazy person muttering to himself in the park is a very thin line.

So I reckon that, when that guy with the messy hair and rotten teeth smiles at you on the bus, you should never be too judgmental. Maybe even give him a smile back. If he won’t leave you alone, tell him you’re an alien.

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  • manilatop10 on May 18, 2010

    Being ourselves is impossible in one sense since we have so many influences from others diba

  • Jimmy Shilaho on May 18, 2010

    Your posts always make me smile. Keep it up.

  • rajaryanme on May 18, 2010

    Really good one

  • ageeinc on May 18, 2010

    Very nice. This one was funny.

  • Michael Eboh on May 18, 2010

    So hilarious. Thanks.

  • drishti8 on May 18, 2010

    Very funny. Mind was refreshed.

  • Sourav on May 18, 2010

    Enjoyable write! :)

  • Ruby Hawk on May 18, 2010

    We are too quick to judge other people if they are different from us. We should accept people as they are and appreciate the difference. After all, it would be such a dull world if we were all alike.

  • flame007 on May 18, 2010

    great write

  • Goodselfme on May 18, 2010

    I never thought to tell anyone I was an alien to have them leave me alone. That is a good idea. Aren’t we all weird since we are different from each other? Ces’t La Vie! That is life!

  • J.L. Eck on May 18, 2010

    I was half crazy when I was born and it has gone down hill ever since;P

  • Tina Cassello on May 19, 2010

    I think it is the bit of craziness that makes a person artistic. We see things differently than “sane” people do, which scares them because they get the feeling that we can see through them. Sometimes we think we can, but we can’t see through ourselves, so how could we really see through anyone else.

  • ladym33 on May 19, 2010

    People are too quick to judge these days. I try to always smile at people when I pass them by. Does it make me strange, maybe but at least I get other people to smile too. Nice write up.

  • sara20 on May 19, 2010

    Nice to read this piece.

    Keep writing more about it. It is really gracefully and very well written skill.

    Thanks for sharing.

    Cheers.

    Sara:

  • suhail on May 23, 2010

    hmmm just checked myself :S Ok I dont have messy hair and rotten teeth !!

    but i am not lying all those people who told me they are aliens are too!!! they are .. they are .. they are…. what? you are an alien too :S

    no way how come i am the only human here !!

  • saadcooldude on May 31, 2010

    hey really funny

  • AvantPointGuard on Jun 17, 2010

    I tell people I am an alien–they don’t believe me–this was well written and shows what a nice person you are–

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