So, things were great at first but now it seems there are more problems than solutions in your relationship with your significant other. You may want to look for signs that the relationship might be close to an end. This does not apply to persons that are married or have several belongings that were puchased together. Here are the top ten reasons you may want to start looking for a way out that is as peaceful and as pain free as possible:

1. Your partners eyes glaze over when you try to have a meanigful conversation with them and they stare off into space or seem to have no interest whatsoever in what you are trying to convey.

2. Important issues like the finances or late bills seem to anger your partner when brought up and they offer no solutions or suggestions to rectify the situation.

3. You make plans that include you and your partner but your partner always finds a reason to cancel at the last minute an offers lame excuses that wouldn’t convince an idiot as to why they can’t attend.

4. Logic creates an arguement and any great solution to a problem offered by you gets shot down by them.

5. You save money and are working towards a goal but they spend recklessly and have no goals, at least that include you.

6. You partner goes out after work, calls you and says they will be home around 8 or 9 pm. They show up at 3:30 am after the whole town has been closed for hours.

7. Your partner projects their problems on to you. This also seems to happen with their guilt on any given issue.

8. You offer good advice or try to help with any given situation but are blown off as if your opinion, or facts, don’t even matter.

9. Your partner only seems happy when conversing, or spending time, with other people and immediatly seems bothered by your presence.

10. No matter what you do your partner seems to have a reason to argue with you or is negative about good things that are happening.

If you can’t seem to work things out then it may be time to start looking for options outside of your relationship. If you do not own the house or apartment that you share with your partner you might want to look for a place to store your things until you can get a new place to live. Do this quietly and move as quickly as possible when they are at work or out on a weekend night. If they leave early on a Friday try to be completely out of the dwelling before they return. Take only your things and don’t trash the place as this will only cause more problems. If you have pets or shared belongings wait until they know you are gone and discuss it whith them after things have cooled down. If things don’t work out or they don’t conatact you then move on. No one wants to be in a negative situation all the time. It just isn’t healthy and it does no good for either party involved. If you don’t have a place to stay then contact friends or family and see if you can stay with them until you can find a new place. Offer to share bills and rent if need be while you save for your own place.